You just found out you’re pregnant and a lot of thoughts and emotions may be running through your mind. Maybe you’re excited and scared, or maybe a little bit of both. Maybe you’re already thinking through your pregnancy options and what the future holds. But what if you and your partner have conflicting feelings about the pregnancy? What if he wants you to get an abortion but you want to keep the baby? Navigating a situation where you and your partner disagree can be difficult, especially when it comes to a life-altering decision about pregnancy options. However, taking some time to understand your feelings and options can help you communicate openly with your partner and make a thoughtful decision for everyone involved.
Can My Partner Legally Force Me To Get An Abortion?
Before you decide your next steps, it’s important to know that no one can legally force you to get an abortion. While healthy relationships involve open communication, mutual respect, and consideration for each other’s feelings, it is ultimately your decision how you would like to proceed with the pregnancy.
If you ever feel pressured and need to speak to someone, we offer free pregnancy support and resources. We are here to support you with whatever decision you make about your pregnancy.
If someone is threatening, manipulating, or attempting to force you into having an abortion, that may be a form of reproductive coercion and domestic abuse. If you do not feel safe or would like support, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org.
What Are My Next Steps?
Confirm Your Pregnancy
Before making any decisions, it’s important to confirm your pregnancy. While at-home tests are mostly accurate, confirming your pregnancy with a medical-grade pregnancy test and getting an ultrasound to confirm the pregnancy is actually developing is an important first step. Since 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage, you may not have to navigate making a pregnancy decision.
Thoroughly Research All Your Options
Once you confirm your pregnancy and learn how far along you are, you’ll have a clearer understanding of the options available to you. Knowing the facts can help you make an informed decision that feels right for you.
If your partner is pressuring you to have an abortion, those feelings may be rooted in concerns about finances, education, housing, relationships, or the responsibilities of parenting. Exploring the support and resources available in your community may help address some of those concerns and provide reassurance as you consider your next steps.
Reach Out for Support
At Aspire Women’s Clinic, we’re here to help. Our registered nurses and social workers provide free pregnancy support services, information about your pregnancy options, and referrals to local resources that may be available if you choose to continue your pregnancy. Our goal is to ensure you have the information and support you need to make an informed decision.
If your partner is not supportive of your pregnancy decision, you can also speak privately with a member of our team. We provide a safe, nonjudgmental space to discuss your concerns, explore your options, and connect you with helpful resources.
Pregnancy Support and Options Counseling in Southwest Florida
We understand that an unplanned pregnancy can bring uncertainty and difficult questions. That’s why Aspire Women’s Clinic offers free pregnancy support services and pre-abortion screenings, including pregnancy testing and limited ultrasound exams, so you can get the health information you need before making a decision.
To get started, fill out an appointment request or call or text us today to schedule your free pregnancy test and limited ultrasound.
